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threatens me with abuse charges
| Wed, 07-28-2004 - 12:01am |
Long story short: I got away from abusive husband more than 2 years ago. separated, with OFP etc. I have 2 beautiful kids and after long reflection and listening to his begging almost everyday to come back, his promises to change/therapy, seeing kids miss him so much, seeing that he lost his job, I let him back in our lives about a year ago. It was ok for a while. But things have gotten really very bad now. He is extremely vindictive, puts me down and my parents/family every chance he gets in front of the kids. Before I thought he had some love for me; now all he does is hate me with a vengeance, tells kids how mommy is so selfish, no manners, etc etc , threatens me, shouts in my face, almost hits me. Won't leave either. Recently he has started a new tactic . Even if I raise my voice with the kids he says he will call police - I should get the lesson he got (I had had to call the police once). When this happened today I couldn't talk for the scare it gives me. Now I am kicking myself for not having been strong enough and listening to his pathetic whining while separated. This is getting too much for the kids of course. I want to leave of course, but have to think about his threats of abuse charges against me, his threats of taking all money etc. I feel like he came back so that he could get his revenge at me, and get the kids, with some false charges against me. Has anyone faced this situation where the other party is falsely accusing you although you are the victim ?
thanks for reading.
thanks for reading.

Hi Kuku, and welcome -
Unfortunately, this is textbook pattern for abusers.
CL-Blueliner4