Took Assault To Get Cops To Pay Attentio
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Took Assault To Get Cops To Pay Attentio
| Mon, 06-26-2006 - 8:10pm |
Well, as you all know, I thought it was over and done. however on saturday night he assulted me(split my lip, may have fractured my nose, kicked me in the head and stomach) and has now threatened to kill me and swears he will before he ever goes to jail...so needless to say im terrified he will carry through..i have charged him with assault, uttering threates, property damage and two other charges i cant remember plus a restraining order is being arranged against him but i still feel terrified he will kill me as i would not put it past him!

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:) thats exactly what my mom said...shes like, why cant all men be like the dogs, so happy to see you and loving unconditionally all the time :)
wouldnt that be nice? wonder how thatd look in a personal ad
"SWF looking for a nice man just like her dog(minus the drool)..NS"
lol
Well....isn't it funny how an abusive person always blames their actions on the behavior of others?? And I know exactly what you mean about the dog issue.....mine would say the exact same thing. Or something like .."If you paid as much attention to me as you do to -the cats, the dog, the kids, our roommate's kids,etc.(fill in spot with answer of choice) I might not be such an a-hole" LOL Why would I want to pay attention to someone that has belittled, humiliated and embarrassed me for the longest time?? If you were to hit an animal everytime you called them to you, guess what? They stop coming to you!! DUH!!
My H has always used his 'altered states' as the reason for his behavior. He has been heavy into many different drugs and alcohol for a long time. Never went for treatment, always in denial. He actually went to counseling when I left him but quit because it 'interfered' with his new job. He actually got a good job once I left - WHY couldn't he do that when I was there. Now he makes good money but he says it's only until he can make enough money to move here. He plans to sell off all of 'his' belongings to come here to win me back......I have told him it wasn't necessary, he shouldn't sell everything, he cannot live here with me and I don't want him back. But you know, he is THICK as a brick.
Here's hoping your days are good and your nights are peaceful. Mine are pretty good considering but I have friends and family around me 24/7....thank goodness. Then again, I do look forward to living on my own, no kids, and just my little dog for companionship.........ahhhh that is heaven!!!!!!
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