Total guilt trip & berakdown ....

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Registered: 03-15-2004
Total guilt trip & berakdown ....
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Wed, 05-18-2005 - 8:05pm

I dont know why i just let this get to me, its been weeks since i cried at all over this - maybe months. I have felt so free & strong & on a great road to freedom, & one phone message from him & it all crumbles. We have been able to communicate really sanely & well the past couple weeks overall & it is SO much better than this stressful crap.


Tonite STBX (M) has Ave overnite for the 2nd try (1st time she wanted to come home & she did, last Sat, instead of staying overnite.) She was a bit nervous & kept asking me last nite & today, "you will pick me up really early, right?" (i dont think its her DAD per say,

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Registered: 03-15-2004
Thu, 05-19-2005 - 11:35am
I said from the beginning of this "it is SO much easier to divorce a stupid guy", lol.

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Registered: 03-20-2005
Fri, 05-20-2005 - 1:50pm
Hi, rich. I have read many of your posts before and I knew you were an rn, and you are right you are doing better financially than a lot of other mothers that have lower paying jobs. I don't know how to respond, except I think the sooner you can divorce him, the better. At least you won't have to pay his health benefits. When you divorce him, are you obligated to keep him afloat? I mean, will a percentage of your wages need to go to him because he doesn't have enough money? That would be infuriating to me. In past, I think a man would have too much pride to have his ex-wife cushion things out for him (unless she was a wealthy heiress or something). But if you divorce him, at least you won't have to pay for his health benefits.
So nice to put a face to your posts! And of course, there is your beautiful daughter,
Avery. I would say more, except, I understand that you just needed to vent, and it seems that you have things pretty much under control. Lots of luck, Smiley.

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