So, I have made it one whole day with no contact.
You are doing great! I know it will be hard not to talk to him but it is definitely for the best. You are doing so great keep up the good work!
I'm glad that you are in counseling. It can be so relaxing when you get help like that. Remember that you are not alone and you are doing the right thing.
You are right. You did NOT make him this way. My nightmare was kind of a jerk and would take jabs at me when we were going out that I refused to see even though EVERYBODY told me not to marry him. I have had a few 'outs' before but never taken them. Now there are two girls involved and it makes it harder. I will do the right thing very soon!
Keep it up! You are doing great! Lots of P & PT coming your way!!!