Update

iVillage Member
Registered: 01-08-2005
Update
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Fri, 01-28-2005 - 9:31am
Hi all,
I just wanted to fill you in as to what is going on .
A week ago Wednesday i went to my local pd for help and the oh so lovely officer told me to go back because I did not have a change of clothes.
So I asked him if he knew what he was telling me to do and he told me yes.
So me and my son went back and slept in the car . about 3 am i snuck in the house thinking he was sleeping to get blankets and well he was awake, he pissed on the blankets so that we would have nothing to cover up with. I told him I was leaving and sh!t hit the fan he went on a rampage. The state troopers escorted me and my son to another state where I have family. but it did not stop there. As of right now I do not know how many people he hurt or killed. Thank God we were not one of them.
I am sorry for the people he hurt but I am glad we got out safely. We have nothing except the clothes on our backs but we are safe.
They do have him in jail and they did set a bond a low bond at that so now we wait and see if he is going to make bond if he does we will be leaving again. They know and I know he will head here.
iVillage Member
Registered: 12-29-2004
In reply to: babysnowdragyn
Fri, 01-28-2005 - 9:40am

babysnowdragyn-How awful for you...what could he have been thinking? Why would he do such a terrible thing!!! That is absolutely horrid, and I can't believe that the police didn't do anything until that incident!

I certainly hope you got/get an RO before he bonds out! That way, if he breaks it, he will end up in jail again and this time the judge may not allow him to post bond...

keep us posted on what happens! My prayers are with you!!

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iVillage Member
Registered: 01-08-2005
In reply to: babysnowdragyn
Fri, 01-28-2005 - 10:07am
I am not sure as to what he was thinking I am not sure I want to know. I feel like he thought that I would come back and try to stop him. The state I was in have done what they could not only do I have 1 but 2 RO and they are in 2 states so we will see what happens and I pray to God that he does not get out. I called the police there and they told me he was looking at life if convicted of all charges. That is fine with me but I am having a hard time with my son he is so mad at his father and he told me that he would not have done this if i would not have left but I told my son that if we would not have left it could have been us killed. It is going to be a long healing process for both of us when this is all over.
iVillage Member
Registered: 04-04-2003
In reply to: babysnowdragyn
Fri, 01-28-2005 - 10:24am
You're definitely in my thoughts and prayers my dear friend.
iVillage Member
Registered: 01-08-2005
In reply to: babysnowdragyn
Fri, 01-28-2005 - 10:44am
Thank you so very much. I look at it as the hard part is over and that was leaving and staying safe. I too hope that they lock him up and throw away the key. I have not felt this stress free in a long time and all will get better and things will fall in to place. It just takes time
iVillage Member
Registered: 11-12-2003
In reply to: babysnowdragyn
Fri, 01-28-2005 - 1:06pm

First off, honey, thank the good lord you and your DS are OK.

CL-Blueliner4

iVillage Member
Registered: 03-26-2003
In reply to: babysnowdragyn
Fri, 01-28-2005 - 4:39pm
I'm confused ... I terrified to know the answer - did i miss something? Has he killed people since you left? Sorry to be nosey - but i haev been following your story & praying you stay safe ... Hugs! & prayers!!! R~
iVillage Member
Registered: 01-08-2005
In reply to: babysnowdragyn
Sat, 01-29-2005 - 12:21am
Yes Sweetie he killed people he went on a rampage due to my leaving. As to how many I do not know.
iVillage Member
Registered: 01-10-2005
In reply to: babysnowdragyn
Sun, 01-30-2005 - 11:13am
Babysnowdragyn, I'm sorry to hear about this horrible ordeal. Thank God that you and your DS are safe. That police officer who sent you back should lose his/ her job, at a minimum. I know right now your safety is of paramount concern, and it's good you have resources you can call upon. I agree with the other posts, and I just want you to know that you and your family are in my thoughts and prayers.