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Registered: 12-31-1969
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Thu, 08-05-2004 - 10:50am
I posted on this board a couple months ago because I wasn't sure if I was in an emotionally abusive M. I looked over the list again and I counted at least 10 traits my H exibits. That was enough to fall in the "crisis" section. It went up from 6 mainly because we recently went through another episode where I had decided I wanted some physical enhancement... if you know what I mean! He was a rollercoaster about it... one day it was ok, the next he would get moody and not talk to me trying to get me to say "Awww whats wrong". Well I did one night after a few of these up and down convo's and he proceded to shock me once again with his true self. He said that there are two things in life the equate to power.. Sex and Money. I would NOT make more money then him and he will NOT give me the power! OMG!! What the?????

His sister and her H were just here for the night and they asked me the next morning what was wrong with him, that he wasn't himself and he was very quiet. I didn't notice it of course, but I told them that he is insecure and worried I will make too much $ and leave him.

I think things are going to get worse not better

:(

dd