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| Sun, 04-18-2004 - 1:45pm |
Just wanted to give update, Attorney is great, She is also filing charges against xh friends for rape. Dont know if we have a shot at winning, but even if we dont win they will have to go through the humiliation of a trial. maybe they will think twice before they agree to come over with xh next time. hopefully there wont be a next time. Girlfriend has not called me again, but xh is out of jail now. I guess she rounded up enough money to bail him out. He called me and i new it was him but i answered the phone anyway. I think i was hoping to hear some sound of remorse in his voice, didnt happen. I hung up as soon as he started yelling, called the police told them that he called. he really doesnt think that he is doing anything wrong, i really dont know how i could have ever loved him. I am going Monday and having my cel number changed, that way he cant call me anymore. I am staying with Chris still, cant go home with him out of jail. Chris has been great, she found a counselor for me, well it is one that she went to when she was having issues with her daughter. We all (Chris, Me, and Counselor) went out to lunch on Friday. I have my first appointment with her on Monday. I really feel that this is going to be the one that i can talk to. I feel comfortable around her. I feel so much stronger now, now that i am doing something to stop it. I am still very ashamed of what i have done in the past, but am very proud of what i am doing now. You ladies and Chris have given me the courage to stand up and be heard. Thanks to all.
Van :)

YEAH! for you! I'm so glad you have an excellent attorney, and a friend like Chris to help you through! I'm glad she introduced you to a counselor...and hopefully this will be good match for you! Keep up the great work, girl!!
Remember, "progress, not perfection"!!!!
big hugs
dharma