update

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Registered: 01-22-2004
update
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Wed, 03-31-2004 - 10:16am
h and i agreed on the no fault divorce. his fam is paying for it. i will have custody of anna and he will be paying me child support. i will also get to keep everything i have right now. i've trapped him into a corner. w/the abuse and stalking. oh, and the fact his is already seeing someone else.

he came by sunday night acting stupid so i called the cops. then he called last night and said he was filing and wanted to make sure we could agree on something before he got the paper written up. i'm so ready for this to be over with. we haven't even been married a year. june 28th would have been a year. now i'm just ready for this ride to be over. it's funny how we just give and give and give until we can't give anymore. when we finally realize our life is our life and no one was put here to tell us what we can and can't do with it. we were together for 3 yrs. i'm trying to remember back early on into the relationship at things i might have overlooked that could have told me things would be this way. but, nothing. i'm just glad i see it now.

thanks to everyone who helped me get here.

love you guys,

mel

iVillage Member
Registered: 04-04-2003
In reply to: imel240
Wed, 03-31-2004 - 10:37am
I am glad to see you are finally paving your own path to freedom!
iVillage Member
Registered: 11-12-2003
In reply to: imel240
Wed, 03-31-2004 - 11:40am

Yay Mel!

CL-Blueliner4