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|Sat, 04-16-2011 - 12:47pm|
board has been quiet for 3 days..
nothing much going on my end..Everyone I spoke to feels it is best if I were to leave and not have to deal with changing locks, keeping up with the house and so on so forth. They also said moving out without any paper work filing/serving is not recommended so as to sort of "lay out the rules" else a controlling, vindictive person like him cannot be trusted and can do whatever he wants. If I feel I am not able to leave alone (without dd), I have been told to "stick it out" while the papers are in process. At that time, if he chooses to go on his own or does anything, I have been told to call police.
Yes, I know you all will say I can keep overthinking and analysing but I got to DO something to start some process. Without action, nothing is going to happen. I was all gung-ho until yesterday morning..was even looking at prospective places. Today I am just frozen.. mainly at the thought of DD who has so many things in her plate (that she has begged me not to disrupt or the "I wont be able to handle this now") part..