update, important day tomorrow
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| Mon, 11-22-2004 - 11:49pm |
Just an update for all who are in similar situations: I got my temporary order for protection last week, and it was served to H. He didn't even come home to get his stuff, I packed most of his things and gave it to a mutual friend. I got my kids included in the OFP because of the way he was emotionally using them last time this happened (and of course, the abuse all happened mostly in front of them). Anyway, I have had the most peaceful time at home, kids took it surprisingly well (I think mostly because he wasn't able to call and mess with their minds), and I have been getting good sleep. I hope and pray that this is a sign of things to come.
Now comes worries about the future. The court hearing is tomorrow for the permanent OFP. Child support etc will be decided then. There will be other negotiations on visitation ec. I am also filing for divorce then. From past experience, I don't know if I can depend on him for child support in the future. we will have to deal with it when that happens. I will update all of you about what happens.
The kids do really miss him and want to talk with him. But I am so surprised still how happy they seem, though kinda sad that they can't see dad.

Good luck in court!