An update on my situation
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| Sat, 11-20-2004 - 10:18pm |
Hi again all! I know a lot of you haven't heard from me in a really long time, and some of you might not even know who I am. For those of you who do, I did return home to my parents after my ass of an ex said and did what he did to me. He went back to his homeland for a few months back in July. He filed our divorce papers via his attorney in August while he was away. I think he intentionally waited as long as he did so I wouldn't try and move on with my life. He didn't want me to be happy, but I defied him and I ended up finding it after all, hee hee. Go me, go me! In late July, I started talking to this sweet All-American (I learned my lesson!!!!) guy who is living in Florida (for now) and we really hit it off. Not only does he love children and wants his own and accepts my daughter, he also thinks I am beautiful just the way I am and doesn't want me to diet!!! I decided to go down to Florida (just outside Tallahassee) to meet him after about two weeks of talking. We set it up for Labor Day weekend, which in a way was bad timing considering Frances was starting to hit the coast. Yes, my flights were delayed and I ended up leaving two days later than I had intended, but I wasn't complaining! He was more than I could ever have hoped or dreamt of. He's this wonderful big bear of a man (him being 6'4" and me 5'3") who is willing to move to me if necessary because I can't leave my child again. We're not rushing into marriage or anything, but is something that we would like to do in the future. We're in serious talks about our relationship and the future and he understands that I've been through some emotional trauma, but is willing to help me through it. He's doing a absolutely fantastic job too!! I will keep you all posted, but I just wanted to tell you all that I am finding my way. Though I haven't made it to where I need or want to be, things don't seem so impossible anymore. Thank you to all of you who helped me make it through my transitions. Bless you all!
In peace, love, and friendship,
Mona

Hi, Mona, and thanks for the update.
Mama Harmony