Update:Divorce is final

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Registered: 10-17-2004
Update:Divorce is final
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Thu, 09-29-2005 - 12:19am

Hi all. I just wanted to give you an update to what is going on in my life now. I know I havent been on this board in forever but I dont have much time to troll the messageboards anymore. Also my energy is down to almost nothing between work and working on the fixer upper house and taking my son to soccer practice.

Anyhoo. Today the divorce was finalized. Actually I wasnt expecting it but I wasnt going to say no please not today hehe. I feel both sad and relieved. I dont feel like I could ever go back to him or want to but still I feel a sense of loss for what could have been.

Work is going pretty well and my son seems to be adjusting to school fairly well. I still worry about him and wonder if we shouldnt try to move back up to michigan so that he can see his old friends. He seems to have had a hard time making new friends here. But I think overall we are doing ok. I cant wait to get out of my parents house...they are driving me crazy.

I hope that you all are doing well. I think of you often and say a little prayer so that safety and happiness will be with all of you.

I can never thank you enough for all of the help and support that you gave me while I was struggling almost 2 years ago with my decision to leave. Thank you.

Love,
Blueminnow

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Registered: 02-08-2005
Thu, 09-29-2005 - 7:22am
I'm glad we were there to help you hun.
5yrssm 
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Registered: 11-12-2003
Thu, 09-29-2005 - 12:13pm

Hallelujah, honey!

CL-Blueliner4

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Registered: 09-29-2005
Thu, 09-29-2005 - 7:04pm
Thanks again for the success stories.