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Venom Vomit
| Fri, 01-21-2005 - 3:24pm |
HG said something in her post to Rebecca about venting, so I figured this would be a good time to break this out again on our board (New Beginnings pulls this out every few months).

Let's see now...
"God, can't you take a joke?"
"But I'm cuuuuuuuuuuuuuute!" (usually when he was being especially immature, complete with removal of his wedding ring and holding it over his head like a halo)
"Hey, when you married me you married my butt."
CL-Blueliner4
Let's see, I blocked out a lot of it....
'You are a &%$^&& iceberg!' (when I didn't want to do unnatural things in the bedroom or - wow - surprisingly didn't feel like being cuddly and all praising of him after all the things mentioned below)
'I could have any woman I want, they throw themselves at me! Why the ^%$% am I with you!'
'I have been on the verge of suicide. If I do commit suicide, it will be all your fault'
'You had 8 months, knowing my work contract was ending, to find me a job, and you didn't do a %$#$^% thing about it!'
Calling me in essence fat by saying things like 'you are out of shape', 'you need to excercise because I don't want you getting ugly and fat as you get older' (I am 5'3" and 105lb)
Also looking at other women in sexy clothes and asking 'why don't you dress like that?'
Asking every few minutes 'do you love me?' Or asking my son 'am I your buddy?'
Telling me that I don't make enough money, 'why don't you sleep with the boss and get a promotion'
'We are going to have to declare bankruptcy because you don't make enough to float us!' (he meanwhile has managed to stash away somewhere between 50 to 100K)
'you can't live without me'
'I wish you would leave and find another man so that he can abuse you the way you say I do. In fact I would like to watch him beat the &^%$ out of you and would applaude him because you deserve it'
'I have a higher IQ than you'
'I had more responsibility in my job at 17 years old than you do now. I could do your job and be better at it than you or any of your co-workers' (mind you he sold water softeners at 17)
After being particularly abusive 'I admit I can be mean, but what do you expect when I haven't gotten a permanent contract at work'
'You are supposed to stand behind me when I am this depressed, not turn your back on me' This said after another abusive episode. I guess I am supposed to stand there and take it rather than try to leave the room.
About my son and diciplining him 'he is supposed to be obedient and what I say goes. If he doesn't, he gets his ^%$$ whooped' (my son was 3 years old when he started this questionable parenting approach. One of the big reasons I left)
YOU GO! The kids stay with me!
I am smarter than you. I have a college degree!
No one will ever believe you because you are on antidepressants, and I'll tell everyone, including the Judge you are an unfit mother!!
You will get nothing!
YOU move out!
Be a mother and do your job and shut up!!
You are worth nothing!
I don't need you here!
We are all better off without you!
No other man would put up with your s--t!
Is it that time of the month again??!