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Venom Vomit
| Thu, 12-02-2004 - 12:51pm |
I usually do this on our sister board, and it's a fun thing to do -- makes you realize that you're not alone with things you've heard.
| Thu, 12-02-2004 - 12:51pm |
I usually do this on our sister board, and it's a fun thing to do -- makes you realize that you're not alone with things you've heard.
well lets see.. there are the normal ones for abusers..
fat, nasty, scummy, dirty, trash, pig, sl**ty, wh**e, b**ch, C*nt,
im not sure my dh is quite so creative huh?!?!
"You stupid, fat, effin' b****"
Cow, whale, walrus, pig, dog-girl, mule.
If I was cooking something that he wasn't familiar with, "What is this slop?" or "Are you trying to poison me??"
"Your effin' family is screwed up."
"Who're you talking to?
My ex-fiance:
" Cannot wait when we have a baby, we will have a lovely daughter and i will be playing with her and you will be getting jeleaus"
" Concentration camps did not exist"
"The baggers on the streets are trush should be removed by waste company"
" It would be a bonus if you had bigger breasts "
" If you brake off with me you would have to go back to Poland " - v angrily ( i was in the middle of my studies )
" Do you want me to jump!?" standing on a window seal of the 28th floor skyscaper in NY, followed by " i wont do it because of my mother"
his (German) mother half joking:
"Martin would be so lucky during the war he has a perfect arian bone structure" (Jesus!)
My mother:
" why there is salt next to your bad, may be he is rubing salt into you so that you would hurt when you have sex?" (she is always willing to share her rich imagination with me)
also constantly: " You are like your dad etc."
Even if taken into context those things were very cruel to say...
A- ha and the most recent boyffriend in the morning:" Are you going to pay me back for the cab, i guess you dont have to , you payed with luuv." than he hugged me but it didnt matter any more cos the damage was done...
And now the highlight of them all my boss:
" Do you not like old men? They can help you.
later:
Tony a girl who came to join us yesterday she has a daughter by her late husband . He used to bit her up. She says she likes it cos her dad was violent to her. we went out last year. I used to bit her up . Because im sh***t and she likes it."
It was on a painting trip, following day she looked very frigile and i knew what must have happened cos they dissapeared on a moor for hours. She approached me long before the conversation between me and my boss happened and told me about her husband. I have suggested to her she should have had gone to the police.
I was harassed by my boss for many months but it always had a too strong element of ambiguity to fight back. I expresseed my shock and suggested they should seek help when he said it all but i also did not want loose my job so i was still kind to him for the sake of it.
I was so disgusted and hopeless though i fell secretly for a man on that trip as my emotional escape and we had an affair secretely. He later came to visit me in London and he said a thing that made me have psychosomatic reaction in the form of severe allergy for the following 5 months. He said during sex he was " dreaming of cutting off my nipples"
I escaped to USA for 6months but im am still thinking of ways of getting my own back. How to screw all those fu..rs?
'..and I thought you knew by now that you are only as good of person as I treat you..'
..if your eyes look at even me I will drag your face across this concrete'.
"I dont want to hear you talk for the next two days or i will make it so you cant talk for weeks" (followed by taunts to try to make me talk by asking questions)
'...are you done crying? I didnt hit you hard enough'
...I do this for your own well being i swear this by Allah.
..tell me how thankful you are to Allah I am your husband (during and after being beat)
..You bleed to much, how are you going to get this off my suit jacket?
..now go get into the bed and wait for me! (after being kicked in the face while taking off his shoes)
... i love you so much that i cant stand you ever looking at another mans' face.
.. you are the most pure when you have tears in your eyes
.. dont you feel Lucky to be with me, i could have anyone i wanted..
..whether its bush or kerry, congress will be republican dominant
this election and besides, I am the president of you! (said with loving smile)
.. i can always take a second wife" ..maybe i should have second wife".. if you arent careful i may take second wife"
...your so lazy you did nothing all day (at the time two kids having chicken pox, trying to keep the others from getting it, high temp and dizzy myself all the while with mother-in-law insisting that was the day to learn very hard old receipe, instructing me in mostly arabic -part english- part well unsure of the other part, as it didnt sound like anything i've ever heard (personally i think she makes up words, as father in law was switching my furniture around (needed lots of help as he is getting up in years)because he heard of fung shei on tv and wanted to try it at my house.
Ahhhh is all i can say
My very favorite that I can still hear and picture where I was when he said it (been free from him for over two years now) but the venom vomit that I remember most was:
You F'ing Fat @$$ (Mind you, I'm only 5' tall and weigh 100 lbs.!!!)
And of course the usual "You'd be nothing without me" -- Ahhhhh, quite the contrary, my dear ex-pinhead ... I am SOMETHING without him!
-Fox
" You know that I love you soo much and want to marry you one day"
five minutes later...
" I f---ing hate you, you peice of s--t"
He threw out a piece of artwork I was working on that I left in his house, I expressed sorrow, but did not get angry.. this was his response. ( work with facial tissues)
"Anything left at my place becomes mine...besides I ran out of toilet paper and the artwork was the only thing I had left to use"
That is the worst crime he could ever commit. If someone destroyed my work on purpose he would desrve capital punishment.
Dont worry , keep strong,
UNITED WE STAND
Lots of love
Adriana