visitation vent...ggrrrrrr
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visitation vent...ggrrrrrr
| Sat, 07-09-2005 - 11:06am |
I am SOOOO PO'd right now!!!! STBX has spent less than one hour with his one week old son. He was supposed to come and see him yesterday and, of course, never called or showed up. I finally talked to him and he said he wanted to come by today. Well, I knew he had to be at work by noon, so at 10:30 I called and asked if I should expect him. He said he had to work till 3am (DOUBTFUL!!) and was just getting up. AND?!?!?? Even if he DID actually work that late, so what? I was up until 3am as well with a newborn!! I didn't sleep for more than 20 minutes at a time all night long! He finally passed out at 4am and at 5:30am I had my two-year-old poking me in the eye. He's also not feeling well (throwing up and diarriah) and I NEED A BREAK!! I just wanted a thirty minute nap while he was here!!!! So he said he'd come and help tomorrow...I just said 'whatever' and hung up. He'll show up when he eventually rolls out of bed around 2pm or so. I'm just sooo pissed that he expects me to be sympathetic that he got ONLY 7 hours of sleep while I got next to NONE!!! Plus, he shorted me $180 on child support, it went up this month b/c Brody was born and I will have no paycheck for the next two months b/c I was on bedrest and now maternity leave (I get no benifits). My rent check will barely clear and I don't know how I'm going to buy diapers, or even put gas in my car to get to the store to


Samantha I really am sorry that he is acting this way.
Oh, mommy, I am just livid at this jerk wad's behavior.
Mama Harmony
I just wanted you to know that I am thinking about you. I had three children by the time I was 20 years old and I had no help either and a whole lot of resentment towards their dad. In the end, he was the one who lost out, but it took a long time for him to realize that. Now I have a 24 year old son who really GETS IT!! He knows how to treat a woman with respect and if he ever got anyone pregnant, I would be on his butt making sure he stepped up to the plate and acted like a real man. So now you have these three boys and you'll be a wonderful role model to them. They will become men that their father is clueless about. Hang in there. We're all here for you. If I lived closer, I'd come over and give you a break. Do you have someone else that can help you out a little?
Tarrin
Oh Honey! He SO totally doesnt deserve you OR any of the kiddos!