Was granted the PFA & STBX violated it.

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Registered: 08-12-2004
Was granted the PFA & STBX violated it.
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Fri, 09-17-2004 - 10:53pm

That sums it up LOL. I don't want to say much more. Ok a little more. But that's it.


The PFA (TRO actually, and I had to edit to add this in so there was no confusion) was granted moreso because (and a judge told me this today) of the forced oral sex. The judge actually called it rape. Spousal rape. Also the suicide threats over and over. Any time my choices were taken away was an abusive time, the judge said. Gosh I don't know what parts of my marriage weren't abusive. . .


STBX violated it within 2.5 minutes of being served on my front porch. At least 15 times. I continually called the police. He tried to force entry into the home. He banged on the windows. He was yelling at me through them. He wouldn't let up. He fled on foot once from the police. It was a mess. The seargant

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Registered: 11-12-2003
Sat, 09-18-2004 - 2:54pm

I'd say so, just given how blatantly he violated it the first time.

CL-Blueliner4

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Registered: 03-26-2003
Sun, 09-19-2004 - 8:27am
Hi iawakened...if you go to http://www.womenslaw.org and select your state, then choose "how to get a restraining order", that will answer most of your questions regarding the remainder of this process and what you should take with you to court.

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