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went to court
| Mon, 08-09-2004 - 2:14pm |
Well we went to court this morning and it was just the arraignment and he pled not guilty so he can get an attorney... it hurt so bad to see him and not be able to talk to him.. then the judge issued a new TPO that is good until next court day sept 2nd and I dont know how i am going to make it that long without talking to him... i dont know what to do. i cant afford the house alone and neither can he.. should we give it up? should I keep it until court to figure out what we are going to do.. i am just lost and dont know what to do... i feel like i am dying inside... this is the worst feeling in the whole world.... the dr gave me ativan and it isnt even helping at all.. im still upset all the time.. cant stop crying... i just dont know what to do i feel so lost....

i feel bad that you dont think that you could keep the house but there are options. he could be ordered to pay alamony. (SP?) and you also have to think about one person not using up as much energy so the other bills will drop some. didnt think that i would be able to hang alone but when i wrote eveything out, it wasnt that bad. unless you are on vacation from work till the next job comes along. (smile)
i say go on vacation with your parents. you will have a good time and realize that this is best. i know that it is the best but it still hurts. hurts really bad in fact but we need to be free. we deserve it. we are good women and deserve to be treated as such. stay strong and keep your head up. pray to someone or something. it helped me this morning when i was in court and it has helped me calm down. or try meditation. heard that works wonders. whatever you do PLEASE keep in mind that we love you and want you to be happy.
i have learned that the people here really care and i know because i am one of them.
BIG HUGS-
shay
Hi honey -
Contact the national DV hotline @ 800-799-SAFE to get referrals to shelters in your area.
CL-Blueliner4