When negativity strikes

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Registered: 04-04-2003
When negativity strikes
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Sun, 05-02-2004 - 12:33pm
In an abuse situation, we as the victim are always the one to blame, even when we know its not our fault and that it was a
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Registered: 01-22-2004
Mon, 05-03-2004 - 11:09am
hey wishful... let me just begin by saying you are such a strong person. you have been through so much. i can't imagine how you feel. you WILL amount to something!! don't listen to her. you are only human and we do make mistakes. don't you tear yourself down b/c of her words. i wish you had somewhere to go. do you have a friend to stay with? i'm sorry she talks to you this way and makes you feel as if you are something you are not. you are a very smart, strong, independant women. you can and will get a job. you can do this on your own and you will. right now you are making steps toward your goal. just keep moving forward and don't look back. let her word go in one ear and out the other, b/c they mean nothing. they have no substance at all. you keep telling yourself YOU CAN AND WILL. she might not have faith in you, but we do.

mel

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Registered: 12-06-2001
Mon, 05-03-2004 - 12:54pm

Wishful, dammit, snap out of it!

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Registered: 11-12-2003
Mon, 05-03-2004 - 4:44pm

So, how did the interview with the employment service go?

CL-Blueliner4