Where are you headed?
Find a Conversation
Where are you headed?
| Mon, 04-18-2005 - 4:08pm |
For many of us who are stuck in these relationships, our focus narrows down to taking care of things day to day, sometimes hour to hour, and that kills what ambitions we have.

Hmmm,.....where I want to be in five years personally........maybe married.
Personally, in 5 years I'd like to be in my own place (either rented or owning, but somewhere that is MINE - no roommates unless it's my idea), have knocked out a good chunk of my debt and be dating (at the minimum).
CL-Blueliner4
Cool questions! Lemme see. . .
First of all I'd like to say that somehow I've managed to stay living in the same rented duplex - I hope not to get evicted (financial reasons) and if I can avoid that, I'd like to be here for a while. Not 5 more years, but definitely awhile. It's been just the kiddos and I living here.
Personally in 5 years I want to be married to someone who really respects me and values me not only as a person, but as a life partner. I know the kind of guy I want to be married to. I want my kids to be mentally, emotionally and physically happy and well-mannered and well-moraled. Their ages in 5 years will be 9, 12 and 14. I hope to still be *alive* in 5 years - I guess that's another positive goal. ;o) I'd like to have a $500 buffer in my checking account at all times in 5 years. I'd like to be able to run out on a whim and buy my kids anything they need. I hope to be vacationing more in
Personally-Have a happy well adjusted child with my son. He will be starting school then and hopefully loving it. I would like a partner in my life, not neccessarily married. Ending the marriage hurt too much and I am not sure I ever want to risk that again. I also am not bothered about someone even living full time with me. Someone to talk to and have as a good male role model for the baby, go out with and be able to share my life with. If I do ever get married again I will have a prenup for sure. I would like to still live in my grandmother's house where I do now, but be able to fix it up some and make it really nice. I would like to get a motorcycle and go out on it once in awhile and also be able to take horses in for training and or selling.
Professionally-I would like to have the business profitable and only working there with no need for a "real" job. I would like to get my credit back and be able to have a nice truck to do chores with and a cool new Mustang for fun stuff.
Physically-Still dying my hair(so what if the baby never sees my real color), thinner(who knew I would get the extra flap of skin from being pregnant), still have nice boobs(I have more than I want so I'm willing to donate to anyone who needs some) To be able to wear nice dresses and look sexy and attractive.
Well that's me. Next...
LMAO!
CL-Blueliner4