why does he do that..
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|Sat, 01-01-2011 - 4:49pm|
ok..the 'peace' is over..after a reasonably ok week of vacation, returned yesterday..started to clean up at home..suddenly mr hyde popped back, degrading me, snapping at me for everything, telling me I do not maintain house, telling me he does not want another 'kid' in the house that has to be told what to do. I kept quiet as I did not want to spoil a new years eve thing with mutual friends. After we came back, I have refused to talk...he is continuing his bad behavior of slamming doors and muttering things about how I cannot maintain house..disrespect, rude towards me. He gave dd a fancy gift..dd is catering to him..Ok..even after all this experience I still have to ask..why does he do that?
As all know, I had plans to leave but DD kept me from leaving. Even now I think I can leave only if I do so alone..trying to think IF I will be able to handle that..the flip side is as everyone stays, his on/off behavior will continue..as is apparent now.
(sigh) how do I leave (alone) and why does he do that..