Why is he being so nice now!?!

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Registered: 12-11-2004
Why is he being so nice now!?!
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Thu, 01-06-2005 - 9:01pm

hi everyone,

okay so ever since I have planned my escape from abusive asswipe, i have noticed that he is being really nice, too nice, doing dishes, telling me he loves me, all that stuff. It's kinda scary, like he knows whats going on, but he would have no way of knowing, im sure if he did he would let me know all about it!

I just hate it so much when he is acting all nice and sweet, and has been all week....i start to change my mind about leaving, and i dont want to change my mind, i feel that leaving him is the best for my life., what do i do?

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Registered: 12-31-2004
Sun, 01-09-2005 - 9:08am
I was reading your post and I remember the things that I had to do to survive. I had to try to think like he did so that I could anticipate his next move. It was the only thing that saved my life. The nice phase is just part of the process. Thats how they keep you thinking its all your fault.

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