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why still nervous?
| Thu, 09-22-2005 - 1:02pm |
Hi,
I have filled out my GAL papers, and have made my appointment (09/27/2005). My attorney says we should be okay...I have the 'upper hand.' Husband abuses alcohol (documented), limited involvement with the children the past 4 years,ect.. He's a controlling, manipulative creep. Still living in the same house with him (separate sleeping arrangements). He can't understand why I don't want to be around him....trying to limit contact as much as possible and still tend to my children's needs. In the past 2 months he's been a 'presence' in their lives (imagine why, eh?) Will the GAL see through this? Im just afraid he's going to bamboozle him. I have documented incidences of alcohol abuse....also have a journal I started documenting his verbal/emotional abuse especially during alcohol use and in front of the kids. I'm requesting primary placement, he's requesting 50/50 and won't budge,why doesn't he just admit he needs help, get it and concede?....why am I still so nervous? Is this normal?
webster
I have filled out my GAL papers, and have made my appointment (09/27/2005). My attorney says we should be okay...I have the 'upper hand.' Husband abuses alcohol (documented), limited involvement with the children the past 4 years,ect.. He's a controlling, manipulative creep. Still living in the same house with him (separate sleeping arrangements). He can't understand why I don't want to be around him....trying to limit contact as much as possible and still tend to my children's needs. In the past 2 months he's been a 'presence' in their lives (imagine why, eh?) Will the GAL see through this? Im just afraid he's going to bamboozle him. I have documented incidences of alcohol abuse....also have a journal I started documenting his verbal/emotional abuse especially during alcohol use and in front of the kids. I'm requesting primary placement, he's requesting 50/50 and won't budge,why doesn't he just admit he needs help, get it and concede?....why am I still so nervous? Is this normal?
webster

Because abusers will NEVER, EVER get it.
:)