Would you call this abuse?

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Registered: 03-15-2011
Would you call this abuse?
Mon, 06-27-2011 - 9:12am

Hello friends

im in a 26 yr marriage , theres been quite a bit of verbal and emotional stuff , everything is his way or no way , for example i cant have the house the way i want , its got to be

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Registered: 01-02-2008
Mon, 06-27-2011 - 9:44am


If you are asking then you already know its abuse... You have put up with it for 26 years and you have been controlled and abused.

So my question is??

What are you going to do about it if anything?
What sort of feedback are you looking for from here.?

Are you just venting or do you need ways to get out of the marriage?

First and foremost I would def. go and find a good therapist who deals with issues of abuse..

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Registered: 03-15-2011
Mon, 06-27-2011 - 9:55am
thanks x
i do need to get out for my self worth really , but because i dont work i just dont know how to go about it x
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Registered: 02-28-2001
Mon, 06-27-2011 - 7:36pm

Welcome to the board, tigger.

Mama Harmony

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Registered: 05-20-2009
Tue, 06-28-2011 - 12:50am

Of course it's abuse......he's been abusive all thru your marriage.