wow...this is weird..
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| Wed, 07-12-2006 - 12:08am |
wow...so this guy i work with that is like, 4 years younger than me, that i have hung around occasionally, told me he jheard i had left H and that he had moved out and i had filed for divorce..and i said yeh...and then he asked me out!?!?!?! i was like ummmm you know what? while thats sweet and i do like you, i need some time to get past my marriage and get healthy again and he was like "oh definitely i didnt mean right now...ill wait as long as u need but ive been really 'into' you since i started working here and i woul dlike to get to know u better"
so im in total shock...im not sure what to do...cuz i really like him, and woul dlike to go for a drink or coffee together sometime but i want him to be clear its not a date as im not ready..plus i dont need my ex dragging someone else into his sick mind game...so yeh..any advice on what to do?

for now just be friendly
When your ready, ask him out for coffee
(personaly, coffee=friends, drink=date)
Well, take it to heart in this regard - if the "I'm not attractive" monster raises its head, slap it off.