wow...this is weird..

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Registered: 05-03-2004
wow...this is weird..
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Wed, 07-12-2006 - 12:08am

wow...so this guy i work with that is like, 4 years younger than me, that i have hung around occasionally, told me he jheard i had left H and that he had moved out and i had filed for divorce..and i said yeh...and then he asked me out!?!?!?! i was like ummmm you know what? while thats sweet and i do like you, i need some time to get past my marriage and get healthy again and he was like "oh definitely i didnt mean right now...ill wait as long as u need but ive been really 'into' you since i started working here and i woul dlike to get to know u better"

so im in total shock...im not sure what to do...cuz i really like him, and woul dlike to go for a drink or coffee together sometime but i want him to be clear its not a date as im not ready..plus i dont need my ex dragging someone else into his sick mind game...so yeh..any advice on what to do?

iVillage Member
Registered: 03-26-2003
Wed, 07-12-2006 - 2:37pm
aww, that's sweet.
for now just be friendly
When your ready, ask him out for coffee
(personaly, coffee=friends, drink=date)
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Registered: 05-03-2004
Wed, 07-12-2006 - 8:09pm
lol i totally agree...were actually goin for coffee tonight before i go tomy class and he goes out with a friend so it works out good then theres no temptation to prolong it
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Registered: 09-29-2005
Fri, 07-14-2006 - 8:19am

Well, take it to heart in this regard - if the "I'm not attractive" monster raises its head, slap it off.