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you were all right
| Mon, 03-29-2004 - 9:51am |
he was waiting for me when i got home, he parked down the street so that i would not know he was there. broken ribs, broken nose, busted lip, and bruises in unmentionable places, thats me. but the good news is i did go the the emergency room and he went to jail. i didnt make up excuses for my injuries, this time i told the truth. im sure he is probably out by now, and he is probably looking for me. he will not find me, i left the hospital and went straight to Shelter. No questions asked, i will speak with a counselor in a little while, dont know what is up next, but for now i feel safe. a volunteer from the shelter went to my house with me so that i could get some clothes and personal items. my son is staying with a family member. i called boss and she told me to take all the time i needed to get things straighted out. i havent disconected my cel but i dont have it with me either, so if, or should i say when he leaves me messages i cant listen to them. i know that my problems are not over, but i do feel that i am headed in the right direction. i know that he has a lot of money which most of the time gives him the upperhand, but i have pictures now to show how he has hurt me, a police report has been filed, i hope his money doent get him out of this one. if it does than i will not give up, i dont want to be front page news. EX HUSBANDS KILLS EX WIFE.
Thanks to all who have responded to my postings, i just wish i had listened to yall sooner. i wish i had found this place sooner, im really glad i found this place now. i may not post for awhile, i have a feeling things are going to be pretty hectic in my life. i will try to keep yall posted on my progress.
thanks again
Van

Good luck on your road and don't feel bad about not posting for a while.
CL-Blueliner4
I'm sorry he did this to you. We all come to our realizations in our own way...some easier then others. Post when you can...and try to heal up. Might I suggest that you bring your child with you, though...I would hate for your ex to find out where your son is and snatch him.
Big hugs
dharma
No, but I do recommend that your son get some counseling, if possible through the shelter you are at or if the shelter can give you referrals.
There are some other ladies, mostly on the sister board upstairs (and specifically cl-tracytrebilcox) who could probably be a little more helpful on this matter.
So that's my suggestion.
CL-Blueliner4
Jen
Take care and gentle hugs,
Ree
I am so sorry he did this to you but thankful that you are still alive. I'm glad that you went to a shelter and i'm glad that you feel safe. I was worried about you and wondered what you were going to do. Being that your abuser is a psycho stalker...i pray to God you will escape him forever. I hope he doesn't find you or your son this time. You are headed in the right direction. Feel free to post here anytime for anything. We're here for you. Many hugs and peace be with you and your loved ones always. Tia. :)
You son seems to be a very mature and smart young man. Counseling would be great if he would agree. If not, heal yourself and then work on him. Also, maybe talk to your parents (I think you said that was where he was staying) or to the adult there and express your concerns and they will probably be more than happy to do some positive intervention on this.
Take care,
Terry