Attitude is outta whack!

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Registered: 06-14-2004
Attitude is outta whack!
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Mon, 05-19-2008 - 4:42pm
Ok, in all the garbage Chris has dumped on me, I have sworn I would not hate him.

 

Kristi

You can't change the past, but you can ruin the present by worrying over the future.

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Registered: 03-25-2003
Mon, 05-19-2008 - 9:08pm
I can't respond with anything good right now. I'm really rtrying, but I am too close to this situation. I will pray and perhaps call you........or come back. Right now..... I'm angry, concerned, saddened.......I'll be back, just know that I am praying.

"I know my plans for you"declares the Lord. "Plans to prosper you,

"I know my plans for you"declares the Lord. "Plans to prosper you,  and not to harm you. Plans to give you hope and a future" Jeremiah 29:11

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Registered: 03-26-2003
Tue, 05-20-2008 - 9:01am
Honey, you know that right now he is trying to impress his adultress with his power over you. He is letting satan run rampant in his affairs just to show that he is the winner here. He's trying to lower you to his level. If Chris was saved, truly saved by God's grace, then what he is doing right now will eat him alive on the inside. Maybe not right now when he thinks "freedom" tastes so good but once the NEW wears off the situation; when she leaves him for yet another man, when he find himself alone, without the respect of his children. Men thrive on respect so I'm not really surprised by the strange twist concerning the boyfriend. My sister's 1st husband pulled a similar stunt when she finally left him because of his adultry. Just stay true to your faith. Don't hate him. Pity him. Hate grows a bitter seed in the soul of the righteous. You need to remember that God is the center of your life and that if you keep your eyes on him, Chris has no power over you. I'm still praying for him daily to open his eyes. I'm praying for you a job and home too sweetheart. I just know God will open up everything you need in right time. ((HUGS)) You know, our problems may seem big but remember that our God is much much bigger.

Your sister in Christ,


Robin

Robin