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Sun, 11-01-2009 - 4:14pm
I found out in April my husband of almost 17yrs was having an affair. There is a lot more to the story but not ready to share yet. I kicked him out thinking that would wake him up. He moved in with her. I filed for divorce with the blessing of my church. If all goes well it will be final November 9th.

Barbara - Mom to Veronica aka Roni- Large facial Hemangioma and PHACE


Just Remember that God does not give us more than we can handle.

Barbara - Mom to Veronica aka Roni- Large facial Hemangioma and PHACE


Just Remember that God does not give us more than we can handle,

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Registered: 09-24-2005
In reply to: yoopertroll
Sun, 11-01-2009 - 5:11pm

I can empathize with your situation, I'd been married 27 years when my h stepped outside our marriage. Had it not been for God's grace and mercy during that time...I'd probably not be here today.. BUT God is good, He is faithful and you may not escape the situation but He will certainly be there to walk it out with you.

I am part of a chat room that offers support to people in just these kinds of situations, some are christians there while others are not. Emotional support and differing viewpoints help clear the mind are offered there. Perhaps you will join us there sometime.. infdelityhelpchat.com

blessings,
Judy

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Sun, 11-01-2009 - 9:19pm

Barb -


I am so sorry that you are going through this situation. That is so great that you have such a supporting church. Know that we are here for you and that we are a safe place for you as well. I will definetely be praying.

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Sun, 11-01-2009 - 9:21pm

Judy -


I will also be praying for you and your situation. Thanks for your great support.

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Sun, 11-01-2009 - 9:38pm

{{{Barb}}} Lord, please let Barb know that you are with her. May she feel you holding her up and your peace. May you guide her steps. May she rest in your mercy and grace. In Jesus' name. Amen.

We are here for you Barb!!

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Registered: 09-30-2003
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Wed, 11-04-2009 - 10:38pm
Court date got changed to December 11th. This means another month without child support and I don't have a job. I haven't work outside the home since 12/1995.

Barbara - Mom to Veronica aka Roni- Large facial Hemangioma and PHACE


Just Remember that God does not give us more than we can handle.

Barbara - Mom to Veronica aka Roni- Large facial Hemangioma and PHACE


Just Remember that God does not give us more than we can handle,

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Wed, 11-04-2009 - 11:39pm

UGH Barbara that is so frustrating. I am still praying. Thank you for the update.

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Registered: 03-26-2003
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Mon, 11-09-2009 - 11:38am
Barb, first of all (((HUG))). My sister was in a very similar situation with her last DH. SHe left thinking he would wake up that she was gone for good but no, he kept the girlfriend. My sister then filed for divorce and he turned nasty but still kept the girlfriend. He started calling and begging her to come home but she found out that it was only when he was broke. She bought a mobile home for her & her DD, got a great job in law enforcement, and when she signed the divorce papers, she said that for the first time since she was 25, she felt like she could breathe. Honey, God works in His own wonderful sweet time. I'll be praying for you. My sister is so much stronger for having endured thru the hardship but she also now uses what she learned to help those around her in similar situations. ((HUG)) I'm praying for you dear. May God bless & prosper you spirtually, emotionally & financially.

Robin

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Tue, 11-10-2009 - 8:47am
Thank You!!

Barbara - Mom to Veronica aka Roni- Large facial Hemangioma and PHACE


Just Remember that God does not give us more than we can handle.

Barbara - Mom to Veronica aka Roni- Large facial Hemangioma and PHACE


Just Remember that God does not give us more than we can handle,

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Thu, 11-12-2009 - 7:16am

My heart and prayers go out to you.


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Fri, 11-13-2009 - 10:11pm

Martha,

Here is an afghan that I designed. Here are matching dresses I made for my daughters last year.

Barbara - Mom to Veronica aka Roni- Large facial Hemangioma and PHACE


Just Remember that God does not give us more than we can handle.

Barbara - Mom to Veronica aka Roni- Large facial Hemangioma and PHACE


Just Remember that God does not give us more than we can handle,

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