Really need employment

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Really need employment
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Wed, 05-14-2008 - 8:47pm
Chris came home and informed me he is filing for divorce on Friday.

 

Kristi

You can't change the past, but you can ruin the present by worrying over the future.

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Thu, 05-15-2008 - 6:06am
(((Kristi))) I've included your situation in my prayer journal.

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Thu, 05-15-2008 - 8:52am
Wow! He is getting braisen in his actions isn't he? Hon, I'm praying for God's hands of protection be upon you & the children. I'll be praying for a wonderful job and a home to accomodate your needs at the right price. I'm praying for Chris to come back to God and repent. It may be too late for your marriage but it's not too late for him and God. God has never failed us and he won't this time. ((HUGS)) Have you talked to a lawyer? What are the laws in Florida about alimony, family abondonment and property abandonment? Up here if I quit my job to stay home with the kids then you up & leave me & the kids in our home, you get to pay me alimony as well as child support and part or all of the house payment. Hon, you need to check the laws of your state. You need to keep proof of what he has done to protect yourself because if he is braisen enough to tell you that he wants to move his addict girlfriend in with ya'lls kids, he isn't JUST gonna file for divorce. I'm thinking a mud-slinging contest may be opn his brain. You are such a strong willed and God filled woman. I love you dearly. I don't wanna see this man walk all over you. I'm praying hon.

Your sister in Christ,


Robin

Robin

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Thu, 05-15-2008 - 9:12am
Florida is a 50/50 state.

 

Kristi

You can't change the past, but you can ruin the present by worrying over the future.

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Registered: 03-26-2003
Thu, 05-15-2008 - 10:30am
I'm praying hon. I know God will open up the right doors. Isn't it sad when a child can nail the problem but a grown up can't?

Your sister in Christ,


Robin

Robin

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Thu, 05-15-2008 - 11:28am
You know it.

Kristi


You can't change the past, but you can ruin the present by worrying over the future.

 

Kristi

You can't change the past, but you can ruin the present by worrying over the future.

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Registered: 03-25-2003
Mon, 05-19-2008 - 9:40pm

ok Go to social services in your area, of Georgia if need be, and file for everything! Ask for the job placement, and financial aide for you and the kids. If you out there trying to put it together, you know they will give you the kids. I know in the state Md, if you go to get help, you will get it! They will help with your rent, food, medical, utilities.....everything, if you are willing to work. I have to think most states are the same way. Its time to roll up your sleeves and get down to business!


Yes it sucks.............but yes its necessary! I'm praying for you over here!

"I know my plans for you"declares the Lord. "Plans to prosper you,

"I know my plans for you"declares the Lord. "Plans to prosper you,  and not to harm you. Plans to give you hope and a future" Jeremiah 29:11