Am I doing the right thing

iVillage Member
Registered: 03-10-2004
Am I doing the right thing
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Tue, 10-14-2008 - 10:14am
My husband and I have had numerous issues in the past.

 

iVillage Member
Registered: 10-20-2004
Tue, 10-14-2008 - 2:41pm

((HUGS)) I am so sorry to hear you are feeling this way. I can understand how it must hurt to hear him verbalize this but realize it was a situation that you may have never heard otherwise. He could have very well kept it to himself. I feel you are fortunate in some right that he was honest and told you. I was in a 3+ year realtionship with a military man and I know that it was hard when he was gone to really find the right time to talk about things or expres how I felt because I was worried about how stable his emotions were. At teh same time I had my insecurities about situations like what ahppened to you. Pray for a clear time when you can really let him know that you were hurt. Don't accuse...just say what you need

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iVillage Member
Registered: 03-10-2004
Thu, 10-16-2008 - 3:41pm
Well things has gotten slowy better. We are now talking more but I still have trust issues. One main reasonis becsue I feel he is still lying to me. During this intense period along with the incident with someone in his room, he decided to add his exes to his facebook. I believe he did it to make me angry at the time.