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|Wed, 07-19-2006 - 12:17am|
I am so sorry you have to read this. I need to EXPLODE somewhere though. Dh's 2 kids were here for 2 weeks and are going back to thier mom's house even though he has full custody. He is allowing her time with the kids and his daughter (6) is doing very well in school there versus here. Anyhow, mother in law has hubby's 2 kids. Thier mother is coming to get them on Thurday. MIL has called here 2-3x a day wanting to talk hubby. When I reply he is sleeping she calls our cell phone every 2 hours on his breaks at work. The ONLY reason we have that cell phone is so every 2 hours on his breaks he calls me to talk, check and make sure the kids and I are okay, etc. Well, we went to Six Flags on Sunday with them and at that point she forced him to ONLY play with his kids. My 3 kids and myself were completley by the wayside and did our own things all day. I was miserable! He has told her at my demand.....to back down, its not happening. Anyhow, DH just now calls home....after a week of NOT calling because he is on the phone with his mom and his kids, he just now calls. Asks if I can call his mom and have her call him asap on his break so he can talk to the kids. (no long distance on our cell phone). I said "ok" and he was like "thanks, bye". Ummmmm....what? It is so not christain of me to be jealous of him and his kids but I am. How do I overcome this? Its like when his kids are around or on the phone, me and my 3 kids are a third wheel. When they aren't here or on the phone, we are his family and he treats us like it. I have tried calmy talking to him about this and he gets irrate! He is soooooo up his mom's butt until recently when I told him he needs to get off her left boob! Thats when he wrote her a letter saying WE make descions. When we met them in St. Louis Sunday, he jumps out of our van and into his mom's van. I drove the rest of the way to Six Flags alone with my own 3 kids. I wanted to go back home so bad!!! The whole time we were together, she had hubby hang back a distance with her and filled his head full of stuff! This is a few things I was fortunate to overhear:
"You know , since your ex has the kids on medicaid in Texas, they look at that like the state is supporting those kids and they will garnish 50% of your wages"
"The kids have cried so hard for you, they want to come home so bad "
" (3yr) is wetting the bed and really acting up, its because your giving them up"
"Your gonna loose these kids for good"