Tough decision to make

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Registered: 10-20-2004
Tough decision to make
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Tue, 09-23-2008 - 1:58pm

I have recently gotten out of what I woudl call the worst hell I have faced in a relationship. Long story short, 2 and a half years invested, getting to know each others children and families, lots of promises, only to find out he had been cheating and he had a child outside of our relationship. prayed to God to deliver me from this and not strong enough to leave him...he eventually couldn't handle my pain so he left.


In hindsight I am glad its over, although we had alot of good times he committed the worst he could to me. Lying, cheating...etc. I know now that this relationship was the furthest things from what God wants in my life but still it is painful.


My dilemma here is, I had purchased a used vehcile (cash) when we were together for him to use to go to work when his other one died, when we had done this he agreed to pay it back as time went on. Needless to say now that he has left he is not paying but has the car. it is in my name so legally is mine, but he is now in a place where I cannot get in contact

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Registered: 06-14-2004
Tue, 09-23-2008 - 7:47pm
It would seem to me that you just need to go file a police report and ask them to go ask him for the car.

 

Kristi

You can't change the past, but you can ruin the present by worrying over the future.

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Registered: 10-20-2004
Thu, 09-25-2008 - 1:19pm

Thanks for the advice. You are right it is business now. I have prayed alot about it and know that by getting it back to use for providing for my children is definately the better choice. I have come to the realization that as long as he has it, that is physical

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