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Mon, 03-26-2007 - 1:26am

I'm having stupid fights with Mark lately. Please hold my marriage in protection of prayer...


Thank you



"I know my plans for you"declares the Lord. "Plans to prosper you,

"I know my plans for you"declares the Lord. "Plans to prosper you,  and not to harm you. Plans to give you hope and a future" Jeremiah 29:11

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In reply to: cl_joyfulmomof7
Mon, 03-26-2007 - 9:11am
Honey, I'll be in prayer for your marriage to be under God's protection. Stress has a terrible affect on marriage. Hang in there dear, God's will is perfect. I pray that God will guide the thoughts, actions, and words that prevail in your home. Lots of Love, Hugs, & Prayers coming your way!

Robin

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In reply to: cl_joyfulmomof7
Mon, 03-26-2007 - 4:07pm
Praying for peace. I hate the way these men get when they are under stress.

 

Kristi

You can't change the past, but you can ruin the present by worrying over the future.

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In reply to: cl_joyfulmomof7
Tue, 03-27-2007 - 12:45am

Thanks girlfriends!!


It has been no picnic here I tell ya! We were at it again tonight. :(



"I know my plans for you"declares the Lord. "Plans to prosper you,

"I know my plans for you"declares the Lord. "Plans to prosper you,  and not to harm you. Plans to give you hope and a future" Jeremiah 29:11

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In reply to: cl_joyfulmomof7
Tue, 03-27-2007 - 7:14am

Hey I am new to this board. I must say that I love this board. I am glad to know that I am not the only one arguing with my husband about stupid stuff. I have a personal question. I hope that I am not the ONLY woman who does this. When I am all stressed out, do you withdraw from sex with your husband? I think that this is probably the safest board to ask this question, bc my DH and I are married and christian. So, therefore I was wondering if others do the same thing!? I hope that no one gets offended, I am not trying to get into personal business. I am simply looking for advice??

Laura

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In reply to: cl_joyfulmomof7
Tue, 03-27-2007 - 8:23am
I think that if I am feeling down and out of sorts I am probably not in the mood. I would imagine that is normal. I will say though that I feel that is an important part of our relationship and I do not deny him sex out of some need to get a point across or something. If you are feeling depressed and not in the mood be honest with him about it. Make sure he knows it is not about him and maybe you just need him to be gently and understanding. As he is more that way with you you will feel closer to him and thing will most likely progress from there.


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In reply to: cl_joyfulmomof7
Tue, 03-27-2007 - 9:27am
When I'm irritated with my dh, I could care less! We have that round about arguement fairly regular in this house.

 

Kristi

You can't change the past, but you can ruin the present by worrying over the future.

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In reply to: cl_joyfulmomof7
Tue, 03-27-2007 - 12:44pm

Thank you for answering such a personal question. I am glad to know that I am not the only in this boat. I will say this, it is not directed toward him at all. However,that is how he takes it and gets his feelings hurt. I am honest with him, yet he still takes it personally. Thanks for the advice!!

Laura

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In reply to: cl_joyfulmomof7
Tue, 03-27-2007 - 3:40pm

Praying for protection and blessings for you guys.

God Bless

Martina


 

Martina

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In reply to: cl_joyfulmomof7
Tue, 03-27-2007 - 4:50pm

Thanks you all~


I'm trying to remember that God is in control and He has this all wrapped up in His very able arms.....


But ..............my gut just hurts.



"I know my plans for you"declares the Lord. "Plans to prosper you,

"I know my plans for you"declares the Lord. "Plans to prosper you,  and not to harm you. Plans to give you hope and a future" Jeremiah 29:11