Am I wrong???
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|Mon, 03-04-2013 - 5:00pm|
Okay so it has been 10 months since we have been around my inlaws. For those that don't know it has been five years since I married my DH and his family has gone mad because I didn't pick his sister to be my bridesmaid. Yeah I know silly right? Well his family have been extremely disrespectful to keep and my DH and our son. They come and speak only to my DH and our DS and act like I am not even there. Just one example of their shenanigans. Anywho after all of the years dealing with it I said enough is enough. My DH doesn't say anything and they just continue to do things. Well now MIL thinks it is cute to send cards for Christmas and Valentines for them and not me. Oh and gifts too. My husband doesn't think it is anything wrong with it because we (me and our son) haven't been around. Now my issue is this. His family has been trying to exclude me from the day we told them about the wedding. Just last month he asked me not to come around his family and send him and our son for a while until things get better. Really?!?!? Of course I declined heavily and told him to tell them to stay away. He said that he didn't mean anything by it but he just wants to make things better.......better for who? His mom comes to our sons games and is still rude to me. She barely speaks and never says goodbye to me, but hugs and kisses everyone else...My question is do you all think I am wrong for 1. Stopping his family from seeing us. 2. Wanting them to treat me like I am his wife and not some piece if trash on the street. 3. Demanding it or we won't be around. There is a whole lot more to this story but I am t ying to sum it all up to where we are now.
If you need more history just let me know.....sometimes you need to hear more of the story to make an honest suggestion.