BIL still insists on staying here..help!
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| Tue, 09-26-2006 - 2:05am |
Last night, BIL and wife called here 5 times and played dumb because I answered the phone. They told each other nobody is there each time, so I hung up cuz no response to me. I finally had enough and took the phone off the receiver, lol. Didn't want to talk to me. Tonight when I arrived home,I noticed out of area call again. I knew it was him. Guess what? I checked our email and he sent one saying how great it was talking on the phone with him tonight. He also said that it looks like they may have found a way to get home now. If husband told them they can be here, all heck is breaking out. I also find it interesting they call here after him being there 4 months prior with no phone calls, not to us, brother or anybody else. Nor has he asked any other family member to stay there because he knows it is NO. They told me not to let him move back in. Why don't he respect me? He even got his now wife against me before he moved out and went to japan to be with her. What a great way to be introduced when she does get her. Not good.
No emails from him for over a week. My husband even emailed him back a week ago when he had a few minutes(briefly, didnt say you can be here). Hubby feels his wife wrote those emails for him, lol, and told him;) A few days ago(addressed us both), we got an email regarding how to find out some info(legal). The 2nd email addressed to both, was telling us how he opened his brokerage account finally and used our address because he needed a usa one, hope you don't mind, just throw it in a box! Jerk! What happened to asking, being polite? He knows I sent all his mail back! That peeves me off.
In the email a few nights ago to us both, he says he'd like to get here soon(city 30 mins away but was too far) before NBA season starts and would be an outrage if he misses it. The last part of this email, he slips in asking when my parents are moving in. What does he NOT get? My mother is now here and it don't matter if she is or a baby on the way. Buzz off! I've been very upfront and told him 3 times you cannot be here! This guy and his wife obviously doesn't respect me and my feelings or MY marriage, to keep pursuing this and to call brother and push it. WTH? Very disrespectful and he is playing his wife into this too. Help!

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I'll be contacting the phone company to see what they offer to block these types of numbers(out of area, etc). Hopefully, they have a service that will suit me and that will solve anymore unwanted calls. I don't mind if he emails us but if he continues pushing to live here, I'll tell him to stop contacting us, then block his email addy.
This guys sure is a piece of work, isn't he? I wish and hope him and his wife would just stay in Japan.
Hello,
That is a very good idea. I hope he and his wife stay in Japan too. You have enough going on with the baby and mom staying.
Good Luck! You will be able to solve this.
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