Brother and SIL broke-up - I miss her
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|Fri, 08-03-2012 - 5:39pm|
My brother and sister-in-law have ended their relationship. The end got really ugly and they are hopefully soon going to be figuring out custody of their four children (ranging from 10 years old - 10 months old). Right now my brother has them as my SIL left and has some addiction problems. It has been a month and a half and I have not contacted her. At first there was a lot of angry and a court case so I think it was right to stay away. But I miss her so much - she is/was my sister!
Today is the birthday of a son that passed away two years ago so I finally broke down and send her a msg to say that I am sending her all my love today and everyday. No response yet. I am coming to this board in hope that someone may be able to provide me with some advice. Do I need to let go? I support my brother 100% but I don't blame by SIL for what took place - she just couldn't cope and my brother was not the perfect husband. I don't want to get involved in that but so much of me just wants the line of communication to be open between us. I do worry though that my brother might not like me contacting her. Any advice is appreciated as I am not married so I have no idea what it is like to deal with inlaws.