Forgotten Anniversery........

iVillage Member
Registered: 12-21-2006
Forgotten Anniversery........
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Wed, 02-14-2007 - 2:48am
Our Anniversery was Monday and not a word
mentioned about it from my husband. So is
it normal for the husbands to start for-
getting after 4 yrs or could it be that
we have so many problems and the inlaws
don't help much. I am sure they would
prolli think it would be funny that my
husband forgot! I guess he talked to
his mom a few days ago and I guess she
admited that it would be almost impossible
for me to get a job but who knows my H
could just be saying that so I will shut
up about it.

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iVillage Member
Registered: 03-09-2006
Thu, 02-15-2007 - 12:59pm
I did not post to make you feel worse. You said he "forgot" the anniversary and I was wondering how he could forget when you reminded him. "Forgetting" an anniversary is an act of passive aggressive hostility. I had not read your other posts, and I agree, that it sounds as if you've got bigger problems than the anniversary being passed unacknowledged.
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iVillage Member
Registered: 12-08-2006
Thu, 02-15-2007 - 8:09pm
I am wondering....how did your so called DH forget your anniversary (SP?)? I think that it is in your BEST interest to find out what he is doing on the net! Did you ever thing that he might be having an emotional affair??? Don't say that it is n't possible, bc it is. I think that you better some serious investigating and find out exactly what is going on. I would KILL my DH is he ever forgot our anniversary.
iVillage Member
Registered: 12-21-2006
Mon, 02-19-2007 - 1:31pm
Thanks,nice to know that someone else feels
the same way. So anyway I told him 2 days
after the fact while he was getting ready
for work "BTW happy belated happy anniversery"
and he stopped in his tracks and thought about
what day it was but he didn't even bother to
return the comment. I got nothing not even a
card.
iVillage Member
Registered: 12-21-2006
Mon, 02-19-2007 - 1:39pm
I don't think that its not impossible
that he could be having a fling with
someone on the net. He has had an net
obsession ever since I think the net
has been around. It is very hard to
try to figure out what he is doing
on here becuz when ever I see something
strange and I ask him he starts erasing
the history and he will do this for a
month or so till he thinks I have forgotten
and then he'll stop. He has said once that
he purposley puts things on here just to
see if I am snooping. I just think its him
forgetting to erase the history.Its nice
to know that someone else feels the same
the same way about a forgotten anniversery.

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