How sad is it....

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Registered: 05-19-2008
How sad is it....
Wed, 09-11-2013 - 1:26pm

When your son is in a car in front of you - and you haven't spoken to each other in almost a year, that he had a milestone birthday and you didn't call him, didn't email him and he is in that car hoping you don't see him and you are probably off in lala land thinking about your favorite child?

My son's are 22, 20 and 11 and I often have to apologize to them - I'm human and make mistakes and they are great kids and call me out when I've done something that hurt their feelings or when I don't live up to their expectations.  I'm not always wrong and they are not always right but I'm their mom and I never want to see them hurt so I say "I'm sorry."  

I feel so sorry for my DH!  People like this deserve everything that comes to them.  I know that Karma is a witch - but why does she have to be slow slow?  Truthfully, I really care less what happens to them good or bad.  Just venting!  But, if I live to be 100, I'll never understand a parent who can be so mean and spiteful and uncaring.  I don't care what you are to anyone and everyone else, but if you can be so cold and uncaring to your child and their family - well, there's not really anything that follows that.  Even saying I feel sorry for them doesn't ring true because I don't.  

I just hope there is a special meeting someday in the afterlife where there is an accounting for such atrocities.

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Registered: 09-12-2011
Thu, 09-12-2013 - 3:35pm

cannot understand what youre rambling about.....

if youre right or wrong that doesnt matter ..

what mattters is that your  the parents and even if youre wrong its still ok........

they need to respect that................

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Registered: 02-18-2013
Sun, 09-15-2013 - 10:07am

You didn't call or write your son on his birthday? Is there any good reason why?