My SIL

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Registered: 03-07-2014
My SIL
Mon, 03-10-2014 - 12:37pm

Hi, I need much needed advice please!

my partners sister is non stop!

my partner and I have been together 3 years, and over that 3 years my SIL, who is 18, I'm 30, my partner is 23, has been on my partners back if he doesn't do something she thinks is right.

example, texts him nasty messages about him loving my family more than his!? That she can't remember the last time he spent Christmas with them, if he doesn't take his mothers birthday card straight down to his mum, she's texting him having a go.

god, there's so much I can't remember half of it!

so me and my partner was on a break, of course I was heartbroken and wrote a couple of status on there, nothing nasty about my partner, or to make him look bad....she's now flipping out, calling me everything saying she's done with me and only now wants to see my partner and our baby together, leaving out my son, that I had with someone else. Which is totally unfair! She's spitting my child because she isn't pleased with me!

im so down about it, my partner is equally down as he feels torn! Which I can understand, but god! She can't keep doing this! Finally today, I stuck up for myself and told her to but out of my business and relationship. She said she won't as it's her brother! 

Its causing me and my partner to have little tiffs! What can I do? 

I cant ant let her pick and choose which child she wants to see and which one she doesn't! How unfair is that!

rant over!