SIL is a moocher!
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|Mon, 07-07-2014 - 1:51pm|
This is just a *long* vent, no advice necessary! For the umpteenth time, I have gone to a party where my SIL and her husband (who is a total loser) have attended empty-handed. She has absolutely no qualms about showing up, even after offering to being something, without even a bottle of water or a bag of chips! I was so pissed because yesterday we went to my MIL's house (her mother) to have a BBQ for MIL's b-day. My husband and I agreed to bring a cake (which was $30), and I made some pasta salad. SIL was supposed to bring potato salad, and my BIL was going to bring fruit, veggies to grill, etc. Well, my hubby and I went over early to help MIL set up as she is recovering from hand surgery. Then SIL and her husband arrive empty-handed, a few minutes later SIL goes to get something to drink, she gets water and her husband hems and haws and then takes a beer (which I KNEW he would). This guy drinks like a fish, yet never brings a six pack or anything, he drank at least 3 bottles or more!
My husband and I are having a BBQ in Sept with my FIL (husband's parents are divorced), we are going to be providing hot dogs/hamburgers, beans, pasta salad and drinks (no alcohol). My husband is going to ask his sister to bring the cake, no ifs, ands, or buts. If she shows up without it, she will look like the ass she is. I am also going to ask my husband to ask his BIL not too bring too much (he is the complete opposite of his sister, he brings everything but the kitchen sink). Oh, just found out SIL's excuse why she did not bring anything, she heard what everyone else was bringing so thought she didn't need to bring anything...WTF?
I also told my husband we are NOT buying $30 cakes any more, that's ridiculous. We can really only control what we do, so we are going to. We have a terrific life, a great home, great jobs, go on fabulous vacations. SIL is mooching a vacation off her mother, and has mooched cars off her in the past, MIL's (now deceased) husband had put a stop to it, but I have a feeling the mooching will begin in earnest again now that he's gone.
Her parents have created this monster as they have given her thousands of dollars over the years, not loans either, just given her money, even though she has TWO college degrees. She chooses to take crappy jobs that don't pay well, and then cries poverty. One last thing, this woman is 51 years old, yet acts like a complete adolescent. One last kicker, my husband has been made executor of both his parents estates, even though his SIL has a financial and accounting background, they know she would take all the money for herself. I really hope her parents live long and healthy lives and that there is nothing left when they go. Whatever money they have should go to their care and well-being, period. Whatever is left, will be split three ways. FIL has a place in FL, which, when he dies will be sold, I'm sure SIL will want it, but unless she can buy it, and give my husband his third, it's going.