SIL problem and naming godparents
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|Wed, 03-26-2003 - 10:29am|
Anyway, the question now comes to naming godparents for DS#2. We (DH and I) would really like to name my sister (who is also a very caring, attentive aunt and very religious). But if we do that, we're sure DH's sister will make a stink again. THEN, we thought, maybe we could just name them both as godmothers, but then we may hurt step-SIL's feelings (who is actually much more reasonable and likable than SIL). Nevertheless, I have much more respect for step-SIL and don't want to hurt her in anyway. And to top it off, I am pretty sure MIL will be mad if we don't name SIL as godmother.
Isn't this choice SUPPOSED to be OURS, as the parents?!? Why do people get so upset at not being named for these duties and honors? What should we do?!?!