Ohhhhhhhh...I have been waiting for this !!!
Yesterday I came home..DD was doing laundry....she NEVER mentioned anything was wrong !!! I saw my 2 sweaters on the dryer..facing downwards...thinkin to myself...they look very dingy & weird ! I picked them up.....BLACK INK blotches all over them......1 I NEVER wore....was tryin to wash it ...to shrink it !
I saw her heading out the door to work..I yelled "what happened to the wash....did a pen get into the dryer?" She said YEAH..& went out the door !.......I opened the dryer...(it is only 6 mo old)....the inside is TOTALLY black...not just streaks.....but big blobs & very wide black stripes...dryer door is horrendous....not to mention the clothes..that were dried to death & set the ink in forever !!!!...............REALLY ????!!!!!!????
No sorry....or oops....or just leave it..I will try to clean it up !!!! I stayed in bed this am..on purpose, as she got kids ready...I came down as they left...she said she has a few errends to do & won't be home for awhile........hopefully...looking for an apartment !!!
Am I being over-reactive over this ? As I am on my very last nerve with this whole situation & her slobbiness.....& I WILL SHUT UP NOW !!!
That was my whine for yesterday !!! urghhhh !! Wonderin if I should show DH.....there is nothing that can be done now...I tried wiping down the drum with almost straight bleach....it is baked in there !!! Ohhh...did I mention the basket full of clothes that were thrown out !!!! sighhhhhhhhhhhh !!!!
Oh, Bunny, that's terrible! Not just the damage that was done, but her uncaring reaction to it! You have every right to be livid! I'd show it to your dh and then the two of you can confront your dd and tell her she either has to pay for the damage she did or find somewhere else to live. Or both! You just can't let her keep doing stuff like this and have no consequences of it.
Whines: Tom and I have colds and a nagging, hacking cough. Tom is worse off than I am. He even saw a doctor yesterday and got some cough med with codeine and antibiotics for his sore throat, but so far he doesn't feel much better. He's staying home from work a second day! That just isn't like him at all!
Wahoos: I finished my radiation sessions yesterday! The docs all seem to assume the spot on my spine is gone, although I may need a scan to be sure, and they said they don't want to see me ever again, lol! I agree! Even though the treatments were painless and not time consuming, they were a little scary - thinking about what was going on. I'm very glad to have them behind me!
Glad to hear the radiation is all finished Ann!LOL yes never to see them again sounds wonderful.Hugs to you :)
Whines ~ My back has been hurting lots Not sure why but it sure limits me ::sigh:: Oldest ds is sick :( Woohoos ~ Out to dinner with my friend tonight Otherwise life is good :)
WHINE : WHERE did November go ????
WAHOO : as far as we know & unless the store managers change their mind Wayne starts day shift on Sunday or Monday next week.
WOW....WHAT has gotten into dd? she sounds so ungrateful. how awful to be this way & to ruin the dryer & clothes without caring- like you deserved it or something. it may have been an accident- i've done this myself- but geesh at least apologise & act like you care. no wonder your nerves are jangled & you are losing weight. dh might go through the roof!
Bunny...OMGosh..BIG changes need to be made!!! If you weren't going out of your mind before, you really must be after this happening!! Mistakes happen and I also did this years ago with a ball point pen. It's your dd's uncaring reaction that is baffling and totally unacceptable though!!! I really feel for you!! Yes, you should show your husband. He'll have to know anyway if you have to buy a new dryer too.
Ann...Sure do hope you and Tom get well soon! I told my dh about all the illnesses going around and told him to be diligent about hand washing when he's anywhere outside of our home. He is not a hand washer, I always have to tell him to do so!! Marriage is like raising another kid!!
So glad the radiation is over!! Such a relief to have this stuff behind you!!
Hugs...Oh, how there was a way to make that back pain go away!! I'm sure you're doing all that can be done...ice, heat, massage, anti-inflammatory drugs, and just being very careful of any activities. Coping with pain is exhausting!
Hope your son gets well quick. Way too many people are sick now! I hear of more every day it seems, both locally and around the country.
Hope you had a fun time at dinner with your friend tonight and hope your back cooperated too!