OK...just sent my DD#2 a lil note...

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OK...just sent my DD#2 a lil note...
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Tue, 09-20-2011 - 12:44pm

As you all maybe, remember....DD#2 has alienated herself & my grandson from our family.

So. I guess she talked a lil bit to her sister.....so My other DD told me to e-mail her..to try to clear the air ! Seems like DD#2 has some very twisted thoughts in her head & has convinced herself that they are real !

I asked her to tell me what I have done or said...so we can clear the air..& told her I loved her & Cameron.....& placed the bal in her court !!!!

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Tue, 09-20-2011 - 2:21pm

I hope whatever has happened will be resolved.

I really can't say much because my parents, brother and I have pretty much cut all communication with each other.

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Tue, 09-20-2011 - 2:37pm

((((Bunny)))), I sure hope you hear something from your dd.

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Tue, 09-20-2011 - 2:38pm
To tell you the truth....I wish I knew what was wrong...so it could be resolved !!! Hoping she will step up to the plate & lay it all on the table...seems as tho. she has to let go of all her pent up anger..that seems to be pointed towards me & 1 other sister !

I am truly just done with the stress & drama !!! Sorry, your family has gone separate ways. It sure does stink. Maybe some day I will be able to sleep...if & when this will all be resolved !!!......this sucks...I hate tension between family members...should'nt have to be !!!!!
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Tue, 09-20-2011 - 2:44pm
Oh Bunny, I really hope for all your sake that this gets resolved. For some reason, I thought that was cleared up, or did it just surface again?
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Tue, 09-20-2011 - 2:49pm

Thanks Fran....only a Mother can understand the heartbreak & stress. Plus, it appears to be over nonsense...from what I can gather...without getting DD#3 in trouble, for talking to me about the whole situation ! Plus, I think that she is po'ed at the WORLD , that Cameron is not a perfect child.....GET OVER it....he is a handful...but..guess what..we all still love him, as he is !!

I pray the air will be cleared too....knowing her & her stubborness...probably not !!!

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Tue, 09-20-2011 - 2:57pm

Suzan...nooo...it never got cleared up.....I shoved myself in thier house, to see Cameron off to his 1st day of school & the air was soooo cold...she said a few random words....sil thanked me, many times for making the trip to see Cameron off...but NOT her !!

DD#3 has been keeping info from me.. & told me yesterday....soooo I finally said this is insane...wrote an e-mail to her....nice...short & sweet...told her I loved her & Cameron, & left it up to her...told her if I did'nt hear back from her...I would know that she does'nt want anything to do with me !!

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Tue, 09-20-2011 - 3:36pm

I hope you get an answer back from her. Even if what she has to say is hurtful, it's best to have it all out on the table.


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Wed, 09-21-2011 - 12:31am

Oh, Bunny, how terribly sad and depressing for you this must be!! I so hope your email will get things going on communication. Once you dig a hole that deep, it's hard to climb out. I hope your DD starts climbing! She has to be hurting too. Like Suzan, I also thought this riff had already ended.

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Wed, 09-21-2011 - 4:43am
don't worry about rambling Bunny. One would think there would be a check list for those retiring (to help in getting all the proper paperwork done).

As for dd(()) , it's a pity , and so much precious time wasted when things with the kids can't be worked out . Is it a possibility that you land on her doorstep one weekend with your suitcase and say you're not leaving until it gets resolved? It's OK if she choses to not have anything to do with you and lets you know via SMS, but that is the cowardly way out and she'd regret it down the line. Very annoying and worrisome for sure, don't cry if you can help it, you can come here and talk whenever. You know that.