Your not gonna believe this.....

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Your not gonna believe this.....
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Wed, 08-17-2011 - 4:33pm

This is pertaining to the ongoing saga/drama of my friends death !!!!!! ! of my friends son's was just here at my house !!!!!!! He was the 1 I thought may have been brainwashed by his other brother !

Well. as I thought...words got really screwed up.....I asked Bob what he had heard.....his 1st sentence...I stopped him & said Noooooooo...that is NOT what I said !!!!!!

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Wed, 08-17-2011 - 4:38pm

I'm so glad the misunderstanding has been cleared up - at least with one of the sons.


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Wed, 08-17-2011 - 6:24pm

Bunny, it's good he came to talk to you. Here's hoping he can set things straight with his brother.

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Wed, 08-17-2011 - 6:35pm

BUNNY....Whew..What a huge relief!!! Now I just hope the other brother believes him!!!

That was so good of him to come and talk to you, couldn't have been easy for him to do that.

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Wed, 08-17-2011 - 7:31pm
thanks Ann....I am glad too. Now I want to see the oldest son's reaction when he sees me !!!!! He has always been the know-it-all odd ball...Yes, I think he HAS to blame his mother's death on somebody...as he was sure GOD would make her better !!!

PS...love ur new siggy !...adorable !....miss those days !
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Wed, 08-17-2011 - 7:38pm
Fran...I surely hope he can thru to his thick-headed brother ! I knew that the son that came to the house, was told the wrong info....as he is NOT that type of guy.

Yes...she had that horrendous heart-attack on July 7, 2010...& maybe had 2 weeks, that she was "with it" & could carry on a conversation & dialed the phone to call me ! Other than that.....she had NO quality of life....at all !!! Never saw 1 person w/ so many tubes & hoses & machines attached to her....And my Dad had 2 open heart operations, & I thought he had tubes & hoses !!! urghhhh !
I hope I sleep tonite....prob not...I have to be at DD's house by 6:45 am tomorrow !
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Wed, 08-17-2011 - 7:42pm

Yes, Donna..such a HUGE relief !!! We shall see what happens with the "other one" !

Bob.gf's son...is a great guy, he lives 1 street away from us too....that is why I was crushed when he thought I would say say a thing. That is typical of him..to come & confront the issue...not like his weasel brother, who is like the town cryer !!! ok..I'll stop now !!!!
Thanks for being here & listening to my ramblings !!!! I just want this weekend to be OVER !!!!

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Thu, 08-18-2011 - 4:10am
Bunny, all this will pass. You will never really know all that went on in the confines of their family homes , what was discussed and what was said. I guess it's just been a terribly stressful time for all and to see one's mom like that for so long, is devastating. (for all of you) . Normal blame needs to be assigned and you are the victim of that. As I know you will, just rise above it, Bunny, perhaps arrive at the last minute and stay off to the side and out of the line of fire so to speak. You don't need the hassle and grief provoked words from anyone. (())