Am I helping or Am I being stupid?

iVillage Member
Registered: 11-24-2010
Am I helping or Am I being stupid?
Fri, 12-24-2010 - 2:39am

I have a friend who I met 5 years ago and we were both into drugs so bad that we abandoned our children with there father's and left to live a bad

iVillage Member
Registered: 10-14-2003
Fri, 12-24-2010 - 11:17am

I think you've been a good friend.

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Registered: 08-10-2010
Fri, 12-24-2010 - 12:05pm
Excellent reply, paradigmshifter.
iVillage Member
Registered: 02-14-2004
Sun, 12-26-2010 - 12:52am

What do I think?

iVillage Member
Registered: 04-19-2004
Mon, 12-27-2010 - 3:38pm

Honestly, I don't blame your dh.

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Registered: 11-24-2004
Mon, 12-27-2010 - 9:06pm

I agree with the others. I don't blame your DH for not wanting your friend back into your life. Your friend does have someone to help her, so you aren't going to be needed by her as much. Explain to her your DH gets upset about your friendship with her and keep the communication to a minimum. That way, you're not cutting her off completely.

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