An angry mother who holds grudges...
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|Sat, 03-26-2011 - 6:19pm|
Hello! I could write a book on this, but I won't. I'll try to simplify things. I moved to Philadelphia in August because my mom kicked me out. I don't blame her though. The experience in Philly was so bad that when I returned home, my attitude was very different. I felt deep gratitude and began helping around the house A LOT! I was so grateful to be out of the stressful situation in Philly, it's hard to describe the level of relief.
My mom's been fixing up my old bedroom and helping me out here and there with things like a spring jacket, but when she's angry she holds these things over my head and claims I'm NOT grateful, which is untrue. So, sometime in the past 2 weeks, she must have mentioned a rule about renting Comcast movies, I I'd forgotten. I rented one today and told her, forgetting the rule and not expecting her to be angry. She said I take advantage of her and that's just who I am. I offered the $6, but it didn't matter to her. In her eyes, I'm an untrustworthy, person who takes advantage, and takes what they do for me to granted.
I'm so angry I don't even want to clean their house anymore. I was happy and optimistic at first, but now I just feel wiped out and depressed.
Does anyone have any experience with this? Does anyone have any advice? I would be grateful.