BIL always the topic
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|Fri, 08-15-2003 - 5:50pm|
I try not to say anything but starting to really feel sorry for SIL.She needs to make alot of decisions about her marriage and I think there involvement is making it much harder for her to think straight.I just want to tell them to back off and let her make the decision herself.
Mine and dh's family will be getting together for my kids bd party. My family tolerates them and tries not to be rude but I know they don't want to listen to it and I don't want my kids bd party turn into a conversation or lecture about BIL.Like every get together does.I dont' think I can bare watching SIL setting there keeping quiet like it doesn't bother her. I have never been close to her but can tell it bothers her and can only imagine how humilating it would be.
Any ideas on how to handle this without just coming out and say what I think.I really don't want involved in there problems or add to the problem.I just want my kids bd be a fun day without BIL being the topic.