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helga1969 wrote:As a matter of fact, my question to you was ... why you getting on Jake'smom for being talked about?
I wasn't, and I've already answered your question.
paradigmshifter - good points, and I do understand what you're saying.
No one – not me or anyone else – is attacking her.
helga1969 wrote:I have to say....IMO, I find your posts to be a bit combative. The poster came here be/c she had an issue with a coworker. Her post was simple....Confront the guy or not??A lot of the replies have been attacking the poster, as if she had some sort of control over what had occured. She learned what she learned....it is what it is. Her question is what does she do NOW that she knows what she knows... She cannot go back & change what she heard!Attacking her for having received the information that she did....makes it seem like you're blaming her for being talked about?! I just simply do not understand how or why any of this has anything to do with the poster?! And why your replies seem to attack her? Care to explain??
Sure, I’ll explain.
I don't think my work history is the issue here, but I've worked in all types of environments - large, small, corporate, gov't., non-profit/social services, environments where someone was not liked, environments where