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helga1969 wrote:I have to say....IMO, I find your posts to be a bit combative. The poster came here be/c she had an issue with a coworker. Her post was simple....Confront the guy or not??A lot of the replies have been attacking the poster, as if she had some sort of control over what had occured. She learned what she learned....it is what it is. Her question is what does she do NOW that she knows what she knows... She cannot go back & change what she heard!Attacking her for having received the information that she did....makes it seem like you're blaming her for being talked about?! I just simply do not understand how or why any of this has anything to do with the poster?! And why your replies seem to attack her? Care to explain??
Sure, I’ll explain.
No one – not me or anyone else – is attacking her.
paradigmshifter - good points, and I do understand what you're saying.
helga1969 wrote:As a matter of fact, my question to you was ... why you getting on Jake'smom for being talked about?
I wasn't, and I've already answered your question.