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|Wed, 07-16-2003 - 2:15pm|
It has been only 2 or 3 years that I re-established ties with this alcoholic, immoral family that cuts each other down constantly and am considering telling them to not contact me again, ever. I feel so much negativity towards them right now I can't even see straight. I just found out about this on Sunday when my husband told me about this event that happened on MY WEDDING DAY as we were on our way home from visiting this same cousin and her husband.
I am just sick inside that for one: someone in my family would EVER be so disgusting and disrespectful. Honestly, I never would have dreamed my cousin would do something like that.
And Two; I know he isn't lying because of our relationship and what we have been through together, he's not the kind of person to make something up like that.
( Also posted on the Toxic Relationship board) I'm just needing to vent though too.
I can't stop thinking " ewww!" and " Where do you get off hitting on my husband on my wedding day?"
I think about these people and I just want to throw up. I want to ask people here if they have ever dealt with an alcoholic family with no morals or class, who have been in a similar situation, and how they dealt with it.
Believe me, I am not a timid person and have no problem confronting people, however, I wonder if I would be overreacting. I dont know whether to confront it and bring it out in the open, or just quietly excuse myself again from these dysfunctional people, and live with their accusations of alienating myself from them, listening to people trying to throw guilt trips on me for the rest of my life.
People with no morals suck. Ewww