Dealing with being ignored
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|Tue, 12-17-2013 - 3:01pm|
Would really appreciate some feedback on what would be the healthiest. I am stuck and struggling. I've decided that this year i am not going to all my usuall efforts for Christmas with one of my daughters. This following note explains why. What I am wondering is if I should send the note to her or not. One of the things I value is communication so that would be one reason I would send it. But again, it is very difficult to try to communicate when there is little or no response. . Thanks I know this is such a busy time but wold appreciate this soon.
Sending letters, gifts, cards or messages are one way I reach out to stay connected and build relationship with the people that I love. I send these things because I care. When they are not acknowledged, it leaves me wondering: Did you receive them? Do you value them? Do you care? And I wonder what action to take in the future. Back in May, I sent a letter to you inviting your ideas, wants, needs on how we want be a part of each other’s lives, including holidays and special occasions. Since I have not heard anything from you I’ll assume this is not so important to you. I could be wrong but until I hear otherwise from you I will not really know how you feel.
Since I have little idea if the efforts I make are of value to you, I am refraining from my usual holiday efforts this year but send this little card to wish all of you a wonderful Christmas.
Love as always,